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my 2009 new year resolution

December 31st, 2008 — 8:42am

After putting aside my 2008 year-end holiday to-do list and concentrating on just one resolution, i find myself with this:

Practise Tai Chi daily (at least 20 minutes per block)

I was finding it difficult to just aim for one resolution. There are just so many things that I would like to put on to the list, but if I put more, I’ll achieve less, as with previous years. That, I guess is the paradox of quantity – the more you do, the less you seem to achieve. So, if I were to achieve just this one goal, I think it’ll be a great 2009! I’ll keep the other goals as bonuses if I were to achieve them. My other goals were:

1. read 52 books (that’s one book a week!)

2. run a marathon

I think i’m realistic enough to leave them out for now… :)

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2008 year-end holiday to-do list

December 27th, 2008 — 11:00am

If you’re working during this period, good! You’re one of the lucky ones with a job. I too still have a job, which has been keeping me quite busy these days with all the gloomy restructuring / retrenchment news. However, i’m finally taking a break – 10 days in a stretch. Woohoo!

So far, i’ve been catching up on my reading (books, blogs, facebook etc), deciding on what to read next (Three Cups of Tea, The Logic of Life, Adrian Mole and the Weapons of Mass Destruction are on the list so far), reorganising my internet bookmarks (there are just too many dead sites, and too many sites i will never ever go to…), optimising my laptop (it’s been getting sluggish with too many applications), optimising my iPhone (yes, i succumbed to temptation, but more about that in this post), and deciding on the big question, as always, what on earth am I suppose to do or be in this lifetime?

As I ponder about the big question, I’m still adding lots of to-dos on my holiday to-do list. These are one of those seemingly urgent but unimportant things, which will make you feel that you’ve done a lot but accomplished nothing, which seems to be the theme of my 2008 so far.

So, over this holiday period, i’ve decided to think about some concrete goals that I want to achieve over the next year. I’m not one for new year resolutions because I’ve never made them work. There are either too many goals, or I didn’t keep track of it. I don’t sign up for gym memberships at the start of the year, because I don’t like gym. Things I do like, like writing and Tai Chi, are not financially burdensome, but difficult to keep a consistent rhythm to do it regularly. I’ve read somewhere that even consistent marathon runners find it difficult to step out in the morning for their training, but once they manage to take that first step out of the door, everything flows.

My first step now will be to think through what has worked and what hasn’t, and to decide on just one (or at most 2) goals to be achieved over 2009. I will be posting this on new year’s eve so that I set a deadline for myself.

What is your first step towards a more fulfilling 2009? With that, I wish you a very merry holiday season!

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