I attended a funeral today. Not someone I know of personally, but I attended the whole proceeding anyway. The whole morning was spent listening to really loud music. If you’ve seen lion dance during Chinese New Year, it’s louder than that.
I was struggling to stay awake despite the loud music. The man in costume was [...]

My dad once asked me this question when i was very young.
“Do you want to be a leader or be led by other people?””I want to be neither. i don’t want to lead or be led.””This is the most difficult person to be…”
And my dad never said anything on this matter again. I think secretly, [...]